So maybe you’ve been seeing someone for a while now, but you don’t know exactly where you stand with them? The ‘talk’ either hasn’t happened yet or maybe didn’t exactly go the way you wanted it to, and so now you are stuck in a weird limbo; where you are both together and not together at the same time.
Well, we know these types of situations can be difficult to handle at best, and often result in a lot of anxiety, paranoia or arguments. At Ditch the Label, we don’t want anyone to feel like that, so we’ve put together this little quiz where you can put your ‘situation’ to the test and find out if you are in a situationship or if what you’ve got going is the real deal.
Got a situationship? Read on
So maybe you didn’t exactly get the answer you were hoping for, or maybe you always knew you were in a situationship and maybe want to do something to change that?
Well the most crucial thing you can do now is talk to your partner and find out where their head is at. We know it’s scary, but it’s important to be brave, listen to your feelings and do something about them when you feel ready. For more help, give these articles a read:
Relationship on the cards?
Congrats! It seems like you and your other half are getting pretty serious, and it sounds to us like they are just as in this as you are. if that’s the case, have a chat with them about getting on the same page about where your relationship is going, and laying down some boundaries similar to being in a relationship. For more, read these articles:
If you need to talk to someone about your relationship, you can speak to one of our trained Digital Mentors here for confidential advice and support.
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